To catch a fish, you must think like a fish.
This not-so-ancient proverb (can you guess where it was quoted from?) is an easy to understand metaphor, but who has actually tried to put themselves in the fins of a fish?
Fish are relatively simple minded, so it shouldn't be a hard to think like one. But I tried anyway, and as it turns out it's not so easy! To think like a fish, you've got to observe fish behavior. The behavior can differ based on fish species, age, time of day, weather... is it spawning season? You've really got to know an individual fish to think like that fish!
This exercise gets infinity more complex when we try it on humans. Or, "Just put yourself in their shoes." To truly understand what another person is thinking, you'll have to not only grasp the entirety of the life experiences that their behaviors pull from, but where do we even begin to comprehend the differences in another's brain chemistry compared to our own?
Maybe it's impossible to fully put ourselves in someone else's shoes, but it doesn't mean we should give up on trying to be sympathetic to another's point of view. It's a great reminder that, while some behaviors should not be excused, it might help if we try to better understand the why's behind the actions and not prematurely judge someone.
We may not be great at catching fish, but it doesn't mean we shouldn't go fishing.
Warm regards,
Jimerson
UPCOMING EVENTS!
Live Music: Lily Alter
Saturday, November 23rd | 7:00pm
Join us for another unforgettable evening of jazz with the incredibly talented Lily Alter. A gifted vocalist and pianist, Lily is not only a rising star in the jazz world but also a dedicated graduate student at the University of North Texas, where she is honing her craft and expanding her musical horizons.
Lily’s performances are a mesmerizing blend of classic jazz standards and contemporary compositions, all delivered with a unique and captivating style. Her soulful voice and virtuosic piano skills have earned her accolades from both peers and critics alike.
Don’t miss this chance to experience Lily Alter's enchanting music in an intimate setting. Whether you're a longtime jazz enthusiast or new to the genre, Lily's performance promises to be a highlight of your musical year. Join us for an evening of smooth melodies, intricate harmonies, and the magic of live jazz.
No cover charge • All Ages
Full Wine Menu • Domestic & Craft Beers
Kitchen Open Late
Free Events Around Town!
Check out these wonderful free events around Pilot Point!
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Friday, November 22
10:00am Exercise Class
Community Center
7:30 p.m. - Karaoke with Pam and Dave
Vaughn-Walling American Legion Post 550
Saturday, November 23
10:00 am - 2:00 pm Museum Exhibit
Clifton & Nadene Irick Museum
7:00pm - Live Music: Lily Alter
Pilot Point Coffee House
Monday, November 25
10:00 am - Exercise Class
Pilot Point Community Center
Tuesday, November 26
9:00 am - Game Day
Community Center
6:00 pm Coffee House Sessions - Casual Open Mic & Jam Night
Pilot Point Coffee House
Wednesday, November 27
10:00am - Exercise Class
Pilot Point Community Center
10:00 am - Fall Storytime
Pilot Point Community Library
7:00 p.m. Karaoke with Pam and Dave
Lowbrows Saloon
Thursday, November 28
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
11:00 am - Yarn Buddies
Pilot Point Community Library